Love - To Like or To Be Liked!!!!

As the topic itself proclaims the meaning,
"Does a person's life become more lovable when he/she is loved or he/she loves someone???"
Most of you might have thought about this but yet wanted to bring it into lime light for all our dear readers.
Throughout our life, all we need to go ahead is Love - Care - Support - Comfort whatever you name it. Thats the driving force in everyone's life. But the arguement here is does loving some person enlightens life or being loved does?....might be a toughie for most of us. The well known scenario for this topic happens in the marital zone of our life. Parents or for that matter people around us say that "LIFE IS WONDERFUL IF U MARRY SOMEONE WHO LIKES YOU RATHER THAN MARRYING SOMEONE YOU LIKE". What sets the bars across these two aspects??? Is that being LOVED places you in risk-free and lead a comfortable life or Does you loving someone inculcates a risk factor that it might turn down and you mite get hurt??
Always questions are posted easily but solving or rather answering within ourself is the hard part.why dont we try this within ourself .What say???
For me, being loved would be the better part ( might sound selfish though:) ). Its because once if someone loves you, they try to know all about U. Likes & Dislikes , Favourites & Stuffs you hate, What kinda musik u like and so on. So the point to be noted here is,
The person tried to know all about you because he/she likes U or
The person came to know all about you and that made them to like U
No matter what happens , you are being liked and so you are the nurtured one. Thats altogether a unique feeling that everyone has to experience. Imagine who it would be always surrounded my caring and lovely vibrations from the person who loves us the most in this world??? Nothing in this world would matter than this in our life. With such kinda love encompassing you, you will be able to tackle out anything in your life and win over it. Even when you dont win over it, you will not for sure go down as there is always that Love to comfort you and make you recover faster. Well lets see the other part of this discussion too.... If you love someone , knowing in and out about them, knowing their favourites, collecting small small things belonging to them all brings in all the thrill in yourself. thats all fine ...But what happens when the love is reciprocated incompletely or rather not returned back by the person???Its not seeing this aspect in a pessimistic sense. But its always the human nature that when you give something to a person , our selfish nature inherited in all humans expect atleast some of it to be returned back.Isn't it??

So what happens when the love you give is not returned, hurt of feelings strikes us and the total attitude we see the rest of our life takes a big Divertion.......Just think on these lines...I should be making sense. This suggestion might be argued by some of us in the other way. But as I say always every human being in this world is UNIQUE and each one's opinion differs . The focus was to bring on this sometimes invisible but yet powerful aspect in our main stage of life and make us think more before we act on something thats going to change the rest of our life .

Making a hell out of heaven or Heaven out of Hell - all in our hands.

So All the Best with your lives !!!

Chao